Men & the red pill effect: the growing hatred of women 

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In November, Violence against women increased by 40%, With police calling it a national emergency. Photograph: Pablo Merchan Montes, Unsplash

In the digital era, radicalisation no longer occurs in secret but rather in the bright light of a smartphone screen. 

A loosely defined ideology that purports to reveal hidden facts about gender dynamics, the so-called “Red Pill” movement has quickly expanded into a network of online forums that propagate misogyny, anti-feminist language, and a pervasive sense of male victimhood. 

Thousands of young men between 16 and 25 are drawn to what started as a subculture on specialised forums and has now spread to various social media platforms. 

A 2024 study published in Men & Masculinities found that online male supremacist movements have seen exponential growth in the past five years, with platforms like YouTube and Reddit acting as primary hubs for recruitment. 

Ahmed Zainoury, 23, recalls how he was influenced: “I was 18, just out of school, and struggling with self-confidence.

He adds, “I wasn’t getting much attention from women, and I felt like I had no control over my life.”

The Red Pill’s allure stems from emotional susceptibility. Young men are attracted to influencers who provide easy solutions to difficult social problems because they are struggling with feelings of rejection, purposelessness, and dissatisfaction with modern relationships. 

The movement portrays feminism and progressive social change as an assault on manhood, taking advantage of a deep-seated societal fear of changing gender norms.

“I started believing that feminism was the reason I was struggling, women had it easier. It became this cycle where every video made me angrier and more convinced that I was a victim”, Zainoury states. 

As he scrolled on platforms such as Instagram and TikTok, he came across videos that claimed to explain why dating in the present day was “rigged against men.” 

He found resonance in the forceful, absolute language used by influencers such as Andrew Tate when discussing masculinity and achievement. “They gave me the impression that my difficulties had a purpose and that I wasn’t alone.”

Andrew Tate is the most known public figure to have capitalised on this system. 

As of July 2024, Tate had amassed approximately 9.5 million followers on X (formerly Twitter). 

Despite being banned from platforms like TikTok, his content circulates widely through numerous fan accounts. For instance, as of August 2022, fan pages such as “tateprof” and “atate_clips_” have over 180,000 followers, contributing to the widespread dissemination of his views.

The Red Pill movement frequently worsens anxiety, despair, and social isolation in its adherents despite its claims of self-improvement. 

Men who consume a lot of Red Pill content have higher degrees of sadness, emotional repression, and mistrust of women than their counterparts. 

Twenty-year-old Josh Williamson acknowledges that he was initially lured to the movement because he was frustrated with dating but then understood it was a vicious circle of negativity, he states: 

“They tell you that women are the enemy.”

Josh says he was initially drawn to the Red Pill philosophy as he felt left out of the dating scene. “I was told all the time that women only want wealthy, attractive men, and you’re worthless if you don’t fit that description.” 

He remembers spending hours devouring content from Red Pill influencers who portrayed dating as a contest in which guys were either “winners” or “losers.”

‘The videos I saw all had one thing in common, they all were propagating resentment towards women rather than self-improvement”.

Persuaded that all women were part of a “rigged system” against men, Josh started cutting them off. “I saw that my perspective on women had changed. I began to view them as enemies rather than as unique people.

The turning point for Josh came when he realised how the ideology was affecting his mental health. “I was miserable. My self-worth was entirely based on what these guys were telling me. I started pushing people away, isolating myself. Even my guy friends noticed the change and told me I was becoming someone they didn’t recognise.”

Red Pill radicalism is greatly influenced by social media algorithms. Because TikTok and YouTube encourage interaction, anything that incites anger whether through controversial interpretations of feminism, dating, or gender roles gets more exposure. 

Beyond personal beliefs, the red pill movement has far-reaching effects. Women are particularly affected by these ideals in the real world.

University student Hajra Chaudhary, 21, explains how Red Pill rhetoric has impacted her dating experiences: “Dating has become a challenging task. You can’t tell if the man you’re speaking with secretly believes that women are less valuable because of what he’s seen online. 

She explains that there is now an undercurrent of mistrust in interactions that used to feel regular. You now question if a guy is sincere when he opens to you or if he is just trying to test you against some Red Pill idea. It wears you out.

She fears that these views will have long-term consequences. How will partnerships fare in the future if young men are being raised with this mindset? That is frightening.