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Like father, like son- The ultimate drag duo

“My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person; he believed in me.”

Dads, don’t we love them. Nothing compares to the bright mood and guidance they can bring into our life. They’re like unsung heroes. In the drag industry, the amount of support we need to flourish can’t be underestimated.  You’re thinking drag, dad and support; how? Yes, we know. Sometimes getting your dad to warm up to the idea is easier said than done. For one, we’re sure they don’t imagine spending Sunday mornings tidying makeup and dresses from the floor after what the adventure Saturday night in Soho brought. Thankfully, for Alexander or Kiara Hole, this isn’t an issue, as he carries his dads’ Favolous Flavas’ legacy of the drag queen hype that’s dominated their household since the 90s. Given their popularity in their hometown of Edinburgh, both father and son duo have been dubbed ‘Scotland’s answer to Kim K and Kris Jenner’ by locals. 

Favolous Flava has been performing drag since the 80s. Her favourite costume draws inspiration from the Scottish national colours and the St. Georges’ flag. “Back in my heyday, so through the late 80s and majority of the 90s, drag was always kept quiet in the basements
of nightclubs and bars,” she says. “The main impetus when it comes to being on stage was on vocals and exaggerated performance. That’s still the key to many contemporary drag scripts, which gives me a proud feeling.” In the early days of her drag, Favolous Flavas’ desires were monumental in bringing a high work ethic into every performance. She treated each performance as if it were her last. She highlights how competitive this field was in the 80s, underlining that it often didn’t permit any slacking. Competition for limited places was intense. “When I started, I lacked self-belief and courage. There was no formula to success. Drag had no end goal, nor commercially or
financially. For us gay citizens in Edinburgh, it was a safe haven where we could be ourselves. That’s why this passion still stays the same. It’s something we created. I also believe it was much more of a community; Instead of being in direct competition, we almost had to become pioneers for the next generation. I call it community competition rather than individual. The individual competition is more prevalent in the drag field of today.

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Kiara Hole agrees with her dad in that the 80s and 90s were much more of a competitive field, but that the generation had more of a family feel than it does today. “I remember, while growing up, I’d see him walk in at 1 a.m. with eyelashes dangling off. I thought to myself, I’ll have some of that,” she recounts. “I’m from outside London, where the drag scene isn’t in the public eye much. We almost have to force and market ourselves to be seen. I remember, back when I was 13 years old, every time after I finished school, my dad and I would have our catwalk competition in the hallway to see who the ultimate queen was,” Kiara details. “While every other kid my age played out in the streets with their friends, my dad and I would slap on contour and our mums’ worn-out dresses. And I loved every second of it,” she states. However, Kiara notes that “back then it was also so much more fun because you didn’t give a toss. Now generations have changed, and social media presence has made the drag industry become a ‘who looks and feels the best’ competition.”

To father and son, it appears to be the 80s generation who got the ball rolling to make drag into the phenomenon it’s become today. However, with every performance in those years came potential harm. Favolous Flava reminisces about her initial foray to CC Blooms, an iconic bar for drag queens situated in the heart of Edinburghs’ city centre. “The first time I stepped foot into this building, I just felt that sensation of home. I knew this place was special. No one judged me, which I found mystifying, as just twenty seconds out the door, I’d just gotten verbally harassed. As soon as I entered the two doors, it’s like the club acted as a shelter,” she recounts with glistening eyes. “The drag queens that were performing on that comedy night welcomed me with open arms. That’s what drag is about, welcoming and providing lost souls with a home and a place to be free. I would’ve loved to bring my son to experience that, but I just wanted to protect his safety. Imagine if something happened to him, it would’ve put him off drag forever.”

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Kiara concurs, “it would’ve dampened my vision and probably left me mentally scarred. I’m such a passionate advocate for drag, so if I’d seen something like that, it would’ve hurt.” In mid-thought about the transitions of generations, Kiaras’ mood shifts immediately. “I’m so much more grateful for having been raised in the right era as I know the restrictive realities my father had to endure. Being unable to extensively explore the term drag didn’t help the drag generation in my dads’ time to move in the right direction for a long time,” she explains. “My dad’s club CC Blooms, which he brought early this century, has images of drag performers from the 2nd world war era. However, when you look at images from the 1990s and mid-2000s, the clothing and makeup styles have stayed the same. That’s a half a century year gap where no improvements were made. I’m just thankful for living in a social media era in which I can capitalise from my talents of being a drag queen.”

Fast forward to today, where we have this open-minded generation, the drag industry has become extensively commercialised. It’s much more than merely impersonating a woman. Go on GiGis’ Instagram; every tagged queen has a descriptive version of themselves in the bio. Ask any of them, and you’ll find there’s no such thing as a direct drag queen. There’s always something either in between the two words or before it.  

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Business ventures within drag are something that’s on the rise. Take a glimpse at the strip in Soho; you are spoiled with choice! The investment in drag and LGBTQIA+ clubs in Edinburghs’ city centre has seen itself to be branded as a ‘mini Soho’ by the Scottish drag community. Pay Favolous Flavas’ club or CC Blooms a visit on a Wednesday night and find the Scots mixing Irn bru with gin and tonic water. Starting a political agenda will attract death stares. However, adorning yourself with a sassy wig and an exquisite dress without forgetting to add a pinch of comedy will attract a flourishing crowd.

This is a standard method drag performer Favolous Flava follows to bring out her ability. “From the beginning, drag has always had elements of political know-how,” she says. “This club itself has used this method to attract fans on a weekday. The entertainment factor will always be in the mix, but politics is what sells now. A lot of my new material pre-covid and post lockdown is politics-related. It takes the piss out of the English, Brexit and all that malarkey,” she explains. “We Scots love it because it gets under the Englishs’ skin. We’re like their annoying sibling. We love em’, really! But by taking it with a grain of salt, it’s much easier to see it from the entertainment point of view than the political one.

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This technique of implementing political thought into drag has seen the growth go all the way from performance to impersonation. This has given the artistry a whole new avenue to reach financial rewards. Kiara now uses it to her advantage in her attempt to achieve mainstream success.  “I like the impersonation side more than the performative,” she says. “Taking the mick out of another individual – I love it! I used politics to try to get the upper hand on competitors as I know us Scots prefer not taking ourselves too seriously.”

Social media is another advantage Kiara has over Flava. Go on TikTok and type in ‘drag queen’, and you’ll get 3.7 million results. Quite impressive if you ask us! Kiara appreciates the power social media has granted the drag field. However, drag and politics have merged on social media platforms, making it all the more monumental. “Apps such as TikTok have undoubtedly taken the mainstream and commercial side to another level. One I never imagined possible all them years back,” Kiara declares. “Everyone mentions TV shows such as RuPaul, but I feel like social apps have had a better influence. The most popular drag queens on the app are people in their 30s and 40s who’ve taken this trend by storm. It’s not just doing viral dances or funny skits. It’s more. Now, we see more politically aware content. It reveals that drag can also be serious and a valuable tool in fighting larger political issues, such as LGBTQIA+ rights. This generation has given sexuality and gender the middle finger, and, in my eyes, that’s the biggest thing drag has done for this generation,” she says. “When I look into the crowd and see wee people holding hands, being in love and just embracing their gayness, IN PUBLIC I emphasise, I just know it never happened back in my dads’ day. I can’t even remember a time where I was subjected to a lack of acceptance. It’s really that good. My heart is filled with content knowing how people can feel much more comfortable being themselves,” Kiara says with recognisance. 

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As this artistry has found stability on this eras’ mainstream TV, the next step is financial reward, according to this dynamic duo. The upcoming generation deserves to make this their livelihood. Favolous Flava looks forward to the first time she’ll hit the stage with her son and fellow queen Kiara Hole later this December. Selling out clubs in Soho and Shoreditch with his witty aura, her ‘little cherub’ has had quite the impact on the drag game across all four British borders. “I still get goosebumps talking about it,” she says. “I think our family home will have the same image from the night framed in every room of the house. Being on stage with someone who shares the same blood as me in a prestigious drag club in the heart of Soho will be such an emotional moment for me. Ahh, I wish I could fast forward time to the claps, the acceptance and the laughter. It’ll be the perfect performance,” Flavolous envisions. “Honestly, a father and son drag duo is like finding a needle in a haystack. If it can inspire the child and parent bond as well, it’d give me such satisfaction.”

Kiara expresses equal excitement. “My dad is so soppy, I agree. I can’t wait! When lockdowns are over, we’ll shut down the stage for sure,” she says confidently. “Make sure you tell the English to pay attention to the guidelines. I’m missing out on money, and we’ve got a whole generation to inspire here.” 

Oh, we will. Trust us on that. Keep your eyes peeled on GiGis’ Instagram; we’ll be promoting the show closer to the time.

Before we conclude, Kiara leaves us with a beautiful quote. “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person; he believed in me.”

If you have any heart-warming stories of bonds connected to your drag journey, make sure to e-mail or DM us on Instagram.

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8 Drag clubs in London you must visit!

At GiGi, we believe that if your dignity and self-confidence are intact when leaving a drag show, it probably means that the queen failed to live up to your expectations. These spectacles are intended to make you feel insulted, offended and every feeling in between. It’s part of the act, so soak it in! Drag shows are a catalyst for enjoyment, and GiGi can vouch that there aren’t many lousy acts out there in London’s fabulous nightlife. Drag queens, drag kings, bio-queens and celebrity impersonators are the most common type of performance. The mix in variety and influx of culture within the drag scene makes it so that if one show doesn’t tickle your fancy, well, babe, go test your luck next door.

By now, you know that GiGi has you covered. So here we are, once again, this time with a list of 8 places in the heart of London that you must check out come June 21st.

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8 fundamentals to becoming a fabulous king

A drag king’s look is more than just a suit and a beard. It can be time-consuming to perfect. But fear not, you don’t need to raid the men’s section to achieve the right look for you.

GiGi’s got you covered with eight essentials to guide you towards looking the part. Some of these items are so accessible, they may even be lying around in your dad’s swanky wardrobe. Execute all eight, and watch yourself rise to rule the KING-dom. We even brought our very own drag king for that expert analysis. Victor Vendetta, a former drag virgin, who has reached stardom in the Soho area of London for his different drag king personalities. “Dressing up as a drag king gives me that mental freedom. I have so much to show through this persona I perform from,” he says. “That adrenaline going from a girly girl to a man in a three-piece suit eradicates any pressures I face as a female in life. It allows my performative side to flourish, and sometimes, we all need a break from being ourselves. Transforming myself into that mighty king grants me that, and I can guarantee that after these eight fundamentals, GiGi viewers will be enticed to do the same.”

So, let’s get you all kinged up! 

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A king in a queens world

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The life of a queen is always under the spotlight. Not just on the stage, but off it too. Whether it be for the glitz and glamour of the performances or the rise in popularity on Instagram feeds, it’s evident that drag queens are slaying all around us. Love that for them! But wait a minute, where are the kings? In fact, I have a question of my own, what even is a drag king?

Essentially, drag kings are women going up in drag, so, as men, often wearing masculine garments and defying male stereotypes. Over the years, the idea of gender has evolved, and so has this definition. Similarly like their queen counterparts, a kings performance involves dance, comedy, and music. Today’s society has actually brought out many types of drag king performers. If you browse the Internet, you’ll find terms such as ‘non-binary kings’ and ‘trans men kings’. And this is great; the more, the merrier, and the more GiGi gets to explore all things drag! (Whoops, catch that reference!)

We sat down with three marvellous drag kings and spilt the real tea of why it’s so much more uncommon and underestimated compared to female impersonation.

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Drag, resistance & suspicious parents

There are over 200 drag queens on our screens – but why are only 1.2% of them south Asian?

Amidst the front room reigned by infectious energy and ubiquitous echoes of laughter, a bowl of strawberries is passed around the sofa. Gradually, as the lights slowly start to dim, so does the bowl of fruit’s speed – something more exciting is brewing now. The clock has struck 7 pm, and for Brighton University’s students, it means only one thing: it’s time for RuPaul.

Amongst the crowd sits the lean figure of Adam, applying contour with one hand while getting ready to tweet with the other. In his world, this is escapism, while in his parents’, a nightmare.

As Adam leans over the sofa with interest and his face reflecting the applied Fenty beauty, his friend Rosie murmurs to him, “You’ll be there one day!” “Hmmm”, he murmurs back with doubt; “The chances of that are slim.”

Adam is another south Asian who is faced with the difficulty of taking that next step to the stage. Out of 67 top half performing queens on the show, the number of Asian queens stands at a subtle 5. 

For a statistic that’s been swept under the carpet, it’s pretty damning. Receiving plaudits for its showbiz factor that has the power of getting anyone on their feet, drag is definitely on a monumental rise. Amidst all of this success, however, the lack of inclusion of south Asians is rarely discussed. Does success in this industry really only entail talent and chance? Or is there a more profound, unrevealed secret behind the scenes? 

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 “My family disowned me,” is what Adam reveals when he’s asked about his family’s reaction to his drag dream. “Being gay is a huge no-no in an Asian household anyhow, but to impersonate a woman as a man… that’s a death wish. It was like a double whammy for them that they couldn’t stomach. But I was happy, and that’s all that mattered. I just left my home and never looked back.”

When Adam came out to his family in 2019, they utterly rejected it. Due to the strong religious and cultural beliefs, this is no surprise that south Asian communities are vehemently opposed to homosexuality. Yet, Adam says it was really his passion for drag that sent his relationships to an all-time low. “Growing up in an Asian household, you’re never taught about expression. We have an abundance of colourful dresses in our culture made for women, and subconsciously, I think that that’s where my love for dressing up as a woman started. What was made for women was made for me” Adam explains. “A big part of the drag community is gay, and sometimes when I try to go to castings, they think my background will hinder any success, which honestly, is quite upsetting. That negative stigma around drag and queerness in the Asian community ultimately plays a significant role compared to my white counterparts.” 

Although it’s been two years since Adam has distanced himself from his family, it’s still apparent that agencies are marginalising him for stereotypes beyond his control. While his friend Billy starred in many university drag competitions, Adam has tried countless theatre projects and castings, all to no avail. Perhaps a lack of inspiration and pioneers, Adam believes, may be another reason why south Asian people feel distant to drag. 

“Look at most of the people who star in these shows; they all talk about being inspired by fellow countrymen or the community they were raised in. The fact that I can’t name any influential Indian drag queens from the top of my head makes you think. Am I made for this industry, and will I ever be accepted? It sure does play on your mind.” Adam recalls how he met the first aspiring Pakistani drag performer at a casting show. “We were talking about how we could be that change in society. When the agents asked us who inspired us to do drag, everyone credited western performers. It was then that that fire for us to be that change was ignited. We almost felt embarrassed for our reason for doing drag; it was sheer means of expression. While others did it because they were inspired by the industry, we simply didn’t have anyone in the industry. Only ourselves.” 

Adam’s frustrations reveal a significant conundrum in the entertainment field – a tremendously westernised standard that needs to be acknowledged. As long as you’re from a conventional white background, the chances of success are much higher. Research from PRIDE, found that “Only six black queens even crossed the average marker of 569k followers.” So much for praising drag for its inclusivity! In fact, in RuPaul’s 12-year history, “there have only ever been two queens of South Asian descent or heritage.” That is two out of 166, and 1.2%, which is simply unacceptable and one of the many reasons aspiring south Asians don’t believe drag is in their cards. Is there a way that the drag community, as a whole, could bring this exclusion to an end and inspire the next generation of south Asian performers instead? Given there’s barely any south Asian drag acts, exposure must come from within. 

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As the show neared its end, Adam introduces Stephanie, his 23-year-old agent and a Brighton University student union member. Being a member comes with significant responsibilities. Even she has tried her utmost to break down barriers for ethnic minorities to succeed in drag. Firmly believing that the field’s moguls could do more to help ethnic minorities, she mentions that certain days are made to celebrate diversity within drag.

“It’s all about exposure in this field. The interest in drag is evolving, and since it’s not as established as other performatives, exposure truly is key. Other performatives have certain days to celebrate diversity, and drag can do more. South Asians already feel ostracised by their families; the last thing they need is to feel something akin to that within the industry. Look at Bollywood, it’s a huge south Asian franchise that has reached unprecedented success levels due to its togetherness. Drag culture should follow suit. Instagram and TikTok are optimal platforms for drag performers to showcase themselves. It would be great if the industry could promote some of these pages, not for sympathy, but for the brilliant talent that goes unnoticed.” 

Social media is beneficial in helping gain exposure because it can help mellow that stigma and resistance certain groups feel towards drag. The more our feeds subject us to it, the more normalised it’ll become. Implementing a normalisation of drag in certain demographics is the first crucial step. And while this is important, Stephanie still highlights that the weight that parental support carries in south Asian communities isn’t to be underestimated. 

“If only Adam’s parents could see how talented he is, I think it would help them revaluate their stance on drag. Asian parents are so fixated on maintaining a good image and what extended family has to say that they forget to put a child’s interest at heart. It’s either education or nothing. Drag is an education, and it’s a way of life. Imagine how many south Asian performers worldwide are destined for the stage but are put off because of shaming their families’ reputation. It’s disheartening.”

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While in mid-conversation, Adam bolts in with a vibrant saree, a traditional Asian dress. As he starts strutting down the hall of his university accommodation, effortlessly, like a faithful regular at Paris fashion week, Stephanie chuckles and says, “he’s like this all the time.”

“I’ve been his agent for a while, and he’s a real live wire. It’s about making him realise how good he is. I can only do that with his family’s support. He is destined for stardom.”

This situation is all too common – how many south Asians are victims of the industry and their family’s lack of belief? This constant battle of miscommunication ultimately leads to massive resistance from all parties involved.

As we can see, a significant impetus lies in family beliefs. Therefore, gaining some insight from a south Asian mother seems relevant. Given this subject’s local level of taboo, you can class this as a moment in history.

Tania is a gay Indian and mother to a son who recently received death threats when posts of him in a dress circulated the web. She confirms that being born into a south Asian family affects a drag queen’s ability to come out and affirm themself. She also adheres to the fact that authoritative figures in the industry are playing on this insecurity, and that to their benefit. “The family is not the main issue”, she says. “Our countries are depicted as ones of a third world that have nor morals or freedom. It’s these companies’ way of shifting the blame, and it’s an easy way out. They don’t realise that they’re the catalyst for change, and for change to happen, they need to do more. As parents, we are just pictured as the bad guys. And while I agree that the old generation way of parenting is strict, it’s outdated. It’s a new generation now.”

Tania refutes any claims of subconscious racism, instead suggesting a lack of education amongst the involved parties. “If we all work together, we can push this idea of resistance to one side. I would love and support my son if he chose to do drag. It would be a match made in heaven!” 

If there ever was a time to break stigma and resistance for south Asians in drag, that time is now. Family values have a considerable part to play indeed. Yet, it’s up to the industry and the companies to bridge this massive gap. With the significant consumption and use of social media, the idea of ‘resistance’ can be eradicated. Drag should be a culture that is celebrated regardless of colour, sex or gender. Instead of pointing fingers at each other for all of eternity, we should communicate and educate. With Gen Z and Millennials on the rise to becoming parents, we can no longer blame families. We are being raised in a modern era where everyone is open to acceptance. Perhaps with south Asian queens such as Priyanka taking plaudits on RuPaul’s drag race, could we finally see an influx of south Asian queens?